National Day of Listening

Listening is a lost art form and a skill few truly understand how to use.  In the course of interacting with someone, dialogue isn't simply waiting your turn to speak.  Listening is required, but to openly take in what the other person is saying.  Surprisingly enough, this is called open-mindedness.  Of course it doesn't mean I accept or agree with what the other person is espousing, but to hear all the words and nuances of speech.  For, in fact, speech encompasses so much more than mere words.  Listening involves taking in tone of voice, rate of speed in speech, body language, and so many more subtle innuendos.  Practicing these tips will guard against reading in to what someone says.  As a result, I will know what was actually stated instead of what I thought was said.  The challenge I lay down is to truly listen to what the other person has to say without thinking of what your response will be.  Take in all of what the other person has to offer before formulating your reply.  Think you can do it?  Work on it every day.  Happy obscure holiday!