In Memory of Pat Pitts

About a month ago, my mentor and friend passed away from a very aggressive form of cancer.  Thinking it was an issue with his gall bladder, he was shocked to learn it was Stage Four cancer.  Wow, can't imagine how he must have felt to all of a sudden have mortality staring at him in the face.  Shaking my head in disbelief at yet another friend transitioning from this terrestrial sphere to eternity.  Five total in almost three years.  Unfortunately, unlike a few of my other friends, Pat passed away without Jesus.  This makes his death even harder to bear.  Today his family will hold a Celebration of Life service at the Lecture Hall inside the Fort Worth Botanic Gardens.  Since I wasn't able to get off work to attend, I will remember the life of my friend in a special way while on duty at the cigar shop.  A celebratory smoke while enjoying a cup of coffee is in order.  One day soon, I also hope to frequent the coffee shop we would often meet at for times of sharing and accountablility.  This will be a chance to really remember the positive impact Pat had on my life.  He was good-natured and willing to help anyone with a reasonable request or accomodation.  With an even-keeled temperament, his presence brought peace to those around him.  I miss my friend and can sense the void left in my life by his absence.  Thank you for the season you were in my life.  I am a better person as a result.

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