Brotherhood

"Hey, bro!"  "What's happening, brother?"  Statements like these can take on various forms depending on who is speaking.  Honestly, it irks me to no end.  The speaker assumes there is a relationship of some sort in place that carries with it a certain level of intimacy and trust.  This casual friendship may or may not even exist beyond the mere acquaintance of another person; however, such a connection is earned and not given.  The bond of brotherhood, by blood or circumstance, is extremely sacred and trascendent.  For example, I have a biological sister and brother.  Simply because they are in my family doesn't mean the spirit of brotherhood is present.  Thankfully, in my case, it does!  Then there are those who have become my "brother" or "sister" through circumstance: a bond born out of adversity...a fiery trial that purifies and strengthens the relationship.  In both cases, biological or otherwise, I would storm the gates of hell for them.  If some poor soul should blatantly assault, either physically or verbally, a brother or sister of mine, I am greatly offended to the core and will defend their honor with swift retribution.  Proverbs 18:24 tells me there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.  Wow, that's quite a friendship!  Knowing the essence of this verse first-hand, I am comforted to know Jesus is with me no matter what.  Sometimes I may be out of fellowship, but He is always faithful with his presence and care.  How many true brothers and sisters do you have?  Do you know Jesus who sticks closer than even the bond of brotherhood?  


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